
He could be my secret Santa any day. (Just needs to lose the cigar)
Wit, Wisdom, and Whimsy. (your mileage may vary)
December 15, 2011
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He could be my secret Santa any day. (Just needs to lose the cigar)
November 28, 2011
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At the Fresno AMTRAK Station Sunday evening, seeing off Mike (L) and Nathan (R).
Mike and Nathan live in the Bay Area, and came to Fresno to see relatives for the Thanksgiving holiday. After a ‘business meeting’ to discuss various sundry website details and discuss future plans for Queerlandia.com and it’s associated Queer websites, I saw them off at Fresno’s downtown AMTRAK station. Mike is our glorious leader (AKA Mr. President), and Nathan is our secretary. Between Mike keeping things on an even keel, and Nathan doing a lot of the grunt work, all I have to do as Vice President is sit around and look pretty.
Don’t I do that well?
(oh, I do add a blog or three, now and then. Go check them out, if you like. You’ll find them at QueerLandia.com, QueerFresno.com, and QueerVisalia.com, to name a few)
Mike is the driving force behind the Queer sites, starting off with QueerFresno.com about mumble mumble years ago.
I came on board a few years ago, after Mike, for reasons known only to him, invited me to blog with them. I turned him down twice before deciding ‘what the hell’, and jumping in. He hasn’t run me off, yet, so I must be doing something right.
Nathan is our cute, hot, funny, intelligent, young voice on the Queer sites. He’s also our token straight boy. Sorry guys.
We have a staff of other bloggers who add to the mix, and it’s working pretty well. Go check it out, at Queerlandia.com.
November 12, 2011
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October 11 was National Coming Out Day. I wrote and submitted a Letter To The Editor about it, hoping my local paper, The Visalia Times Delta, would publish it on NCOD. They didn’t, and I dismissed the hope of seeing it in the printed edition. A few days after the 11th, I went ahead and posted it in the blog section of the paper’s online site, and to QueerVisalia.com. Imagine my surprise to see it in yesterdays paper! It appeared on the 11th, but the 11th of Novemeber! Better late than never, I suppose. The comments are filling up with a lot of religious bigotry and hatred, and a couple of positive remarks. There are a lot of remarks from a few different screen names, posting multiple times, and endlessly going on about how I’m going to hell, and need to repent. Some of us who post regularly to the online forums of the VTD suspect the multiple screen names belong to one individual, but you never know. In this area, there are plenty of homophobes ready and willing to rant their anonymous diatribes. It could be more than one person, but regardless, they continue to spout lies, hatred, bigotry, and endlessly go on about how “God” hates this that and the other. But, it did get printed. Already got some nice comments at work and at my Facebook page about it.
Check it out here.
October 23, 2011
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Thursday night a couple of the ladies at work are chatting, alternating between being silly and serious, when the conversation turned to the relative size of their tushes. One, a rather slim one, was joking that she was going to have implants done to her bottom side. The other, a bit on the heavy side, said she’d like to have some removed. Then she offered hers to the first, saying she could spare some, and that then they’d be “butt buddies”.
I spoke up and said “you know, in my world, ‘butt buddies’ has a whole different meaning!”
It’s a good thing the radio traffic was dead right then, because neither one would have been able to transmit anything but laughter.
That humorous interlude would have been impossible if I were still in the closet. Just another reason to be out and proud. You don’t have to pass on fun word play!
September 11, 2011
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Friday morning (well, just after noon, but way morning for me), as I’m in that kinda-asleep-but-kinda-not condition that you get to experience if you don’t wake up to an alarm clock, I heard the text-message chime go off on my phone. At first, I try to ignore it, after all, I’m still “asleep”, but my curiosity got the best of me, and I pick up the phone to see what was up. Ted sent me a message, saying “pack your bags ur going to bass lake for the weekend!!!!!!”. Well… you can’t argue with something like that, so I started packing.
Here are some pictures and details of the weekend.
July 18, 2011
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Ted’s 36th birthday bash at the Fresno Express was held Sunday night, with a good time had by all.
July 7, 2011
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Sunday, July 17, 6pm, at the Express, 708 N. Blackstone, Fresno.
Join us as we celebrate the birthday of Ted Freitas, and help us embarrass him silly!
Full details at the Facebook event page, here!
See you Sunday!
July 2, 2011
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This was the setting for the Men’s Mixer Pool Party. A good turnout of folks hanging out in and around the pool at Todd’s place. Fantastic setting, good people, and we even got the police called on us! (turns out a neighbor really doesn’t like the queers in the neighborhood and takes every opportunity to make that fact known)
Thanks for hosting, Todd. Great backyard!
Rolling With The Stars. Television stars. Hot Television Stars.
December 7, 2011
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Twitter adds a new dimension to interaction with the famous, however. I follow a few famous people, simply because they’re in something I liked, or are somehow related to something I’m interested in. Simon Pegg, George Takei, Buzz Aldrin, Bill Maher, All Mighty God, Brent Spiner, David Hewett, David Blue, and Brian Jacob Smith are a few of the “famous” I follow. Some of them Tweet only professional stuff, intended to promote their careers or particular interests. Some only randomly Tweet, and others run hot and cold. I don’t expect to actually interact with them, they simply have too many people Tweeting at them to expect that they’ll see my Tweet in the flood of messages directed at them. Every once in a while, however, quite unexpectedly, you hit paydirt.
Not expecting him to actually see it, or respond, I sent off a Tweet to an actor in a favorite show of mine, Stargate Universe. Brian Jacob Smith, who played Lt. Scott in the SyFy Channel series responded.
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